Paint condition has little to do with mileage (unless its rock chips).
It has more to do with where the cars spent most of its life. I can guarantee you this car spent little time indoors. Majority of its time was outside in the driveway in the rain/sun/heat/snow, and the rest on the road.
10 years (asuming 04 build date) of outdoor sitting can cause this, without any UV or clear coat protection (a good synthetic wax). The clear coat is so oxidized in the first pic that its hit failure in certain spots, where the clear is clearly (no pun intended) chipped.
As for the base coat etching off in the second, third and fourth pic, acid rain, bird droppings just left sitting, and automated car washes, can all attribute to this. If she doesnt take action now, all those chipped clear coat spots in the first pic will eventually lose the basecoat too.
If this was a 2-3 year old car, I would chalk it up to a manufacturers defect. Honda clear is water based and soft, so while this car was mechanically maintained, cosmetically it was left neglected (never waxed at the least), and this is the culmination of years, not months sadly.
Sorry, just the truth.
At best she could try and have a detailer try to remove the oxidation in the clear but its tricky.
