Lanny, I found an 04 Red lurking in San Diego. It had the A-spec body kit with rear wing but stock wheels. It didn't look that good with stock wheels. If I got the body kit, I would lower it more for performance like the A-spec kit with camber kit as you recommended but the kit looks nice but it's not awesome, IMO. It looks pretty good in black but I just don't know how it looks in Red with the A-Spec wheels in person. I wish I could see one with the whole package. It's not just the money too. The one I saw was actually in the body shop when I was getting mine fixed and it had some damage to the kit. I seems like I gets damaged easily too so right now I'm leaning to just staying with the wheels and getting the suspension. If I find a red one with my wheels and it looks good, I could always add it later.
On another note, I can't believe still how hard it is to find a red/ebony No/Nav in MT.
Every dealer I talked to says they would never stock one like that because they are positive no one would buy red/ebony, much less an MT. Maybe so but it's surprising it's not just a few dealerships but basically the entire group of Acura dealers with a few exceptions thinks the Red Ebony MT is like ordering a pink elephant. I just don't think Red & Black 6 speed is that crazy of a combination, but what do I know.
Finally, I wish someone made a really nice body kit for the TSX. I really want one but the OEM kit looks too much like the Toyota Corolla S. I don't know what it is but something just seems off on the body kit. Really, I can't explain it...it just looks a little odd to me.
BTW, is Lanny your real name?