Concur with merlinj79 on maintaining the car. Your first priority is doing the routine maintenance, and sticking to the maintenance schedule. I ran Mobile One 5W-30 synthetic for years, but have switched to Kirkland 5W-30 synthetic. It provides the same protection at the price of conventional oil. I do a 5K oil change interval, which is probably over kill for synthetic oil. I run OEM engine air filters and oil filters. (I use aftermarket cabin filters.)
I also use Honda's ATF fluid for my AT transmission. I do a "drain and fill" transmission service with three back to back oil changes every 30K miles (also over kill...lol), and I replace the transmission filter during the third fluid "drain & fill."
Iridium spark plugs at least every 100K miles. I think valve check/adjustment every 100K miles. You may want to swap the PCV valve when you do that procedure.
Remember that YouTube is your friend. Always watch the YouTube video first, so you'll know what tools and parts you need to do the job. You can also decide if you want to tackle the job yourself, but frankly most jobs are easily done by backyard mechanics.
As for parts, I prefer using OEM Honda/Acura parts. Do a web search for "OEM Acura Parts" to find dealers and other vendors who sell factory parts online, and prices usually a little under what you would pay at your local dealership. Find the part numbers there, then do an online search for those specific parts.
Once you are on top of the maintenance, then look for upgraded parts. I approach it like this, if there's a better replacement part (like better brake pads), I'll upgrade at that time.
If you are unsure what to buy, feel free to come here to ask. There is a lot of experience here with people who are glad to help.
Enjoy your new car! It's much better than my first one...lol